Are Harry and Meghan bothered about judgment and public opinion

Everyone is talking about Harry and Megan and I think we gave them the benefit of the doubt for a long time. We made judgments based upon them both trying to settle into their new married lives, but their unwillingness or inability to change and control their observable behaviour has led many to despair at their actions. So today Im talking about how we judge other people and how, after all the negative press that has been thrown at them, they just dont ever seem to be really bothered.