Narcissists Partner: Admire Me, Play with Me, Mother Me

There are three phases to the narcissist s relationships with women. The ADMIRER: endows the narcissist with the confidence needed to approach the woman (only his brain or body are attractive, the rest and his personality are repulsive) The PLAYMATE: includes rudimentary courting, sex, and fun activities and simulates the typical behaviors of a MAN in the initial stages of a relationship. Helps to deceive both the narcissist and the woman into believing that he is a proper, fullyevolved man (albeit childlike). The MOTHER: makes the narcissist feel safe, ensconced and immersed in unconditional love as a child. The woman is then free to outsource her needs including sex and intimacy with other men as long as she doesn t act maliciously or vengefully (to hurt the narcissist), is committed to him, pledges to not abandon him, and doesn t cross certain boundaries and provoke abandonment anxiety. Buy most of my books in Amazon