Painting Hannah Arendt
Joscha Bach siad :Loving other people, and being loved by other people, and building a space in which you can be safe, and can experiment, and touch a lot, and be close to somebody a lot. Over time, basically at some point, you realize, oh, its no longer that I feel locked out, but I feel connected, and I experience where somebody else is at. Normally, my mind is racing very fast at a high frequency, so its not always working like this. Sometimes works better, sometimes it works less, but also dont see this as a pressure. Its more, its interesting to observe myself which frequency Im at, and at which mode somebody else is at. Realize that your values are not terminal, but theyre instrumental to achieving a world that you like, and aesthetics that you prefer. The more you understand this, the more you get agency over how your identity is constructed, and you realize that identity and interpersonal interaction is a costume, and you should be able to have agency over that costume, right Its useful to
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