Kabbalah Relationship Tip: Secret to Building Healthy Relationships

In this series of Kabbalah relationship tips, we have discussed how we can rise above our inherently subjective egoistic perception to create a higher connection which we call our shared space. Now we will discuss how to deepen this shared space and move forward. It is important to make connection building a habit, with scheduled, regular, deep, real discussions about who we are, what we like and need. This allows our partner to see us and we respect what our partner tells us, even above any differences or disagreements. The point is to get to know who we are, as well as to build an inner map of our partner, reaching a state of being able to feel each other without words. We learn what makes each other feel good and also what makes them unpleasant. We avoid telling our partner what we dislike about them, as we want to reach a state of acceptance and love of everything about them. Therefore, quality time is essential to build a loving relationship. During the conversation, we build a list of wishes and requ