God as a Narcissistic Parent

We kill our gods even as we worship them. In Jewish mysticism, god reduced himself ( tsimtsum ) in order to create the world. The act of creation involved mayhem on a cosmic scale ( broken vessels ). Christianity is founded on the violent demise of god at the hands of mere mortals. God dies literally, symbolically, or metaphorically in almost all religions. Such hatelove ambivalence characterized our relationships with our parents, especially when these parents selfabsorbed, dysempathic, manipulative, toxic, and objectifying. Such parents refuse to allow their children to separate and individuate, never let go. They emotionally blackmail their offspring and engender an environment of ambient incest. Indeed, the gods these substitute progenitors are often described as petulant, capricious, and narcissistic attention whores: they are clinging, needy, histrionic, rage uncontrollably when ignored or abandoned, jealous, aggressive, with poor impulse control, and with imp