Grown woman cries over being called a lady

Grown lady is literally having a meltdown over a gay bartender calling her wife and her, ladies. She claims she went to talk to him and say she doesnt identify as a lady; to which the bartender said, I dont have time for your games. ,nonbinary, pronouns, pronounpeople, lgb, lgbt, lgbtq, lgbtqi, lgbtqia, trans, transgender, whatisawoman, pronoun, genderidentity, genderideology, transwomen, transwoman, gay, lesbian, lesbiancouple