Should We Play It Cool When We Like Someone

We tend to be told, from a young age, that the very worst thing to do when we like someone is to seem too direct or keen. Showing our interest is, apparently, fatal to the chances of a relationship. But is playing it cool always so necessary And are spontaneous desire and enthusiasm always so taboo The School of Life puts forward an original theory of how to play things wisely at the start. Sign up to our new newsletter and get 10 off your first online order of a book, product or class: For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: 2y1zRZu FURTHER READING You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: One of the paradoxes of the dating game is that we know that by coming across as enthusiastic at an early stage if we ring them the next day, if we are open about how attr