when saviours go bad, drama disguised as help cc
An exploration of how drama corrupts our impulses to help others. Where reallife cases are cited, details may be altered to preserve anonymity. You can support the channel at: 0:00 opening quote 0:44 defining terms 1:08 false alarm 2:07 saviour complexes 3:14 no single path 4:08 infantilising targets 5:35 entering and exiting drama 7:23 the drama triangle 7:42 the victim 8:20 the persecutor 9:04 the rescuer 10:57 switching roles 11:30 Gordons story 14:27 from saviour to supporter 17:33 Tyrones story 18:40 fallacious extrapolation 19:34 negative expectations 21:35 pseudopsychoanalysis 23:36 a glimpse of authenticity 25:15 Tyrones transformation 28:24 two bighearted fools 30:27 defend, regret, understand, make peace 31:41 Marions story 35:15 Dimmys story 38:28 summary opening quote: Drama brings out the worst in us, opening the doors to our most controlling, coercive, d
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