Good and bad are incomplete stories we tell ourselves, Heather Lanier

Heather Lanier s daughter Fiona has WolfHirschhorn syndrome, a genetic condition that results in developmental delays but that doesn t make her tragic, angelic or any of the other stereotypes about kids like her. In this talk about the beautiful, complicated, joyful and hard journey of raising a rare girl, Lanier questions our assumptions about what makes a life good or bad, challenging us to stop fixating on solutions for whatever we deem not normal, and instead to take life as it comes. Check out more TED Talks: The TED Talks channel features the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world s leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design plus science, business, global issues, the arts and more. Follow TED on Twitter: Like TED on Facebook: Subscribe to our channel: