From Grooming to Discard via Shared Fantasy: Cheat, Mortify, Exit

LISTEN WELL, TAKE NOTES, and POSITION YOURSELF in the NARCISSIST s CYCLE to PREDICT THE FUTURE and design COPING STRATEGIES Buy most of my books in Amazon In the first encounters, the narcissist assumes the role of the strict, ostensibly benevolent, but sadistic parent ( tough love ) or the hurt, petulant, entitled, selfcentred, and sadistic child. As a parent, he is having sadistic incest. As a child, he is having masochistic incest. The inevitable cheating by the partner punishes the parent and mortifies the child, fostering personal development and growth as well as a creative spurt. In the narcissists relationships OF ALL KINDS (romantic, business, friendships ), there are five phases: grooming, shared fantasy, interstitial I (two options: exit or persist), mortification or antifantasy, and interstitial II.